Am I being abused?

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Consider these questions.....
  • Is your partner excessively jealous and possessive?
  • Are they charming one minute and abusive the next?  sudden changes of mood - like Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde?
  • Do they stop you from speaking to your family and friends? Do you feel isolated?
  • Do they constantly criticizing you and putting you down in public?
  • Does your partner embarrass you, often in front of family and friends, so that you are seen in a bad light?
  • Does your partner play mind games and make you unsure of your own judgment?
  • Do they tell you you're useless and couldn't cope without them?
  • Do they control your money?
  • Does your partner tell you what to wear, who to see, where to go, what to think?
  • Does your partner pressure you to have sex when you don't want to?
  • Are you starting to walk on eggshells to avoid making them angry?
  • Does they monitor your movements? Or check up on you via your email, Facebook, Twitter or by looking at your text messages?
  • Do they use anger and intimidation to frighten you and make you comply with demands?
  • Has your partner ever threatened you, or intimidated you by using violent language or smashing up the furniture?
  • Are you forced to alter your behaviour because you are frightened of your partner's reaction?
  • Are you blamed for their behaviour e.g. they say you were "asking for it" or deserved the abuse?
  • Does your partner threaten to 'out' your sexual orientation or gender identity?


If you answered yes to any of the above questions, then you may be experiencing domestic violence. Abuse is a crime and it is never your fault.
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